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Attending events to eat without an invitation

Question

Hello.

Is it permitted for a yeshiva student to go to weddings in order to eat there without knowing the mechutanim (the families making the wedding)?

Answer

Shalom u’vracha.

Not on a regular basis. There is an assumption about people’s intention that they agree to a hungry yeshiva student coming once to eat at their celebration, but they do not agree to someone who systematically goes to weddings in order to eat.

Answered 11 January 2026 How answers are reviewed
Rabbi Israel Cohen
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Smicha "Yoreh-Yoreh" (2012), Rav Amram Fried's Beit Horaah
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