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Conducting Matters with “HaShadchan”

Question

We registered on the “HaShadchan” website and received a shidduch suggestion through it. The young woman wants a relative of ours to handle the shidduch, and not the shadchanim from the website. Is it permissible to proceed this way? And if the shidduch is finalized, must we pay the “HaShadchan” website a shadchanut fee, even though in practice the shidduch was not finalized through them?

Answer

Hello and blessings 

When you entered the system, you signed an undertaking to abide by the rules. 

Read there what you signed, and act accordingly. 

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