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Touching a Girl Over Three Years Old

Question

What is the ruling on touching a girl over three years old? 
 A. In the middle of a game.
 B. When the entire game involves touching.
 C. Holding her for her own benefit.
 D. Holding her as a form of amusement for the holder.
 E. Giving her a hand to say “Gut Shabbos.”
 F. If she wants to touch me, is it permissible to let her?

Thank you.

Answer

Shalom uVracha,

A–E: It is forbidden to touch a girl over the age of three if she is not your sister.

F. There is no prohibition on her part—the prohibition applies to you.

Answered 27 September 2025 How answers are reviewed
Rabbi Israel Cohen
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Smicha "Yoreh-Yoreh" (2012), Rav Amram Fried's Beit Horaah
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