Touching a Girl Over Three Years Old
Question
What is the ruling on touching a girl over three years old? A. In the middle of a game. B. When the entire game involves touching. C. Holding her for her own benefit. D. Holding her as a form of amusement for the holder. E. Giving her a hand to say “Gut Shabbos.” F. If she wants to touch me, is it permissible to let her?Thank you.
Answer
Shalom uVracha,
A–E: It is forbidden to touch a girl over the age of three if she is not your sister.
F. There is no prohibition on her part—the prohibition applies to you.
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