Friendly Correspondence with a Stranger Man
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Hello,
Any connection that is not purely technical is forbidden with any stranger man, no matter how religious he is. Even if it is clear to you that it will not lead to anything forbidden, it is a prohibition in itself.
Moreover, the sages said, "There is no guardian for the prohibitions of intimacy."
This means that if complete distancing is not maintained, we can never say about ourselves or any other person that we will not reach the most serious prohibitions.
Even if it seems to us that it is not possible, and we are God-fearing, it will not help against the trial. The only thing that helps is complete distancing from any personal connection.
Source
Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer, Siman 21, סעיף 1
A person must distance himself very much from women. It is forbidden to wink with his hands or feet and to hint with his eyes to one of the forbidden women. It is forbidden to joke with her, to behave lightly, etc.