My Shidduch
Question
I was recently in Israel and there’s this girl that I’ve known for a while but I caught a lot of feelings for her. She’s perfect in my eyes she’s tzniout she’s not on social media shes a family girl she’s a eshet chayil. I wanted to know if I’m able to pray for me to be with her or if I’m able to do anything for me to end up with her.
Answer
Shalom!
Thank you for your email!
Yes, you may pray that a certain girl becomes your wife.
At the same time, you should find out who this girl’s rabbi is and have your rabbi reach out to her rabbi to determine if a date can be arranged.
Good luck!
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Smicha Yoreh-Yoreh (1999) and Yadin-Yadin, author of "Dalet Amot BeHalacha" (11 volumes)
Orach Chaim, Yoreh Deah, Even HaEzer, Choshen Mishpat (excluding laws of interest)
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