Holding a Baby During Birkat Hamazon
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Hello,
It is forbidden to hold anything that distracts one's attention during the blessing, both at the beginning and at the end of the blessing.
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This law originates from the laws of prayer (Shulchan Aruch, Siman 96, Seif 1): When he prays, he should not hold in his hand tefillin, nor a book of the Holy Scriptures, nor a full bowl, nor a knife, nor money, nor bread.
And there, the Baruch Yosef writes (Subsection 1): The same applies to placing a child in front of him during prayer.
And there, the Mishnah Berurah writes (there, Subsection 1): When he prays - in Pri Megadim it is written that the same applies during the recitation of Shema and Pesukei Dezimra.
Therefore, this is not a law only for a blessing from the Torah, or the main part of prayer and blessing, but for any part of it. Therefore, the same applies to 'HaRachaman' at the end of Birkat Hamazon.
