Understanding Jewish Lineage
Question
If my grandmother is Jewish and my father is Jewish, but my mother is Ukrainian, should I undergo the rite of conversion to become a Jew? Could you please tell me in more detail what is required for conversion, and where to begin? Can I now be considered a Jew?
Answer
Thank you for your question. I appreciate that you are seeking clarity about your lineage and how Jewish law views your status. Let me offer some guidance on this matter.
Jewish Matrilineal Descent
Clarification on Jewish Status:
According to Jewish Law, Jewish identity is passed down through the mother. If one's mother is Jewish, then the child is unequivocally Jewish, regardless of the father's identity. This principle holds true even if the Jewish mother practiced another religion, as Jewishness is inalienable once conferred. These rules, immutable and divinely ordained, have been observed by the Jewish people for millennia, rooted in the teachings of the Torah (
Deuteronomy 7:3-4) and elucidated in the Talmud (Tractate Kiddushin:68b
).
Given your description, where your father and grandmother on your father's side are Jewish, however, I understand from what you wrote that your mother is Ukrainian that you mean she is not Jewish, Jewish law does not recognize you as Jewish by birth.
The Path for Non-Jews: The Seven Laws of Noah
Guidance for Non-Jews:
Non-Jews are not obligated to convert to Judaism but have to adhere to the Seven Laws of Noah, ensuring their place in the World to Come (Olam Ha-Ba). Those who follow these principles are esteemed as "Righteous Gentiles."((חסידי אומות העולם For those interested in exploring this path, resources and communities exist.
Conversion to Judaism
Conversion Process:
If your heart is set on converting to Judaism, the journey begins with rigorous study under the guidance of an Orthodox Rabbi. This education spans Jewish laws, including Sabbath observance and kosher dietary laws, typically lasting around two years. Following this, candidates appear before a Beit Din (Jewish court) where they will be tested on what they learned to demonstrate their knowledge of the laws of the Torah and then they will have to formally accept upon themselves to adhere and live according to all of the Jewish laws. The conversion culminates in circumcision (for males) and immersion in a mikvah (ritual bath), marking the individual's formal acceptance into the Jewish faith.
I wish you much success on your spiritual journey, whether you choose to explore the path of the Righteous Gentiles or pursue conversion to Judaism. May Hashem bless you in your endeavors and guide you towards fulfillment.
Source
Deuteronomy 7:3-4, Tractate Kiddushin: 68b