Interpersonal Matters
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Question
My question is about interpersonal matters. About two years ago, I went to help a family, and what happened was that their eldest daughter began to emotionally abuse me at a crazy level, and gradually it escalated to physical abuse. The problem is that there is a family that helps me, and the one who harasses and harassed me is their granddaughter. As a result of this event, I ended up in bad places, and now I am entangled in life and don't know what to do because I talked and tried to make peace. They have now moved to Kiryat Sefer, and I am left wounded and bleeding. The problem is that from the sorrow, I don't know exactly, but people around me started to get hurt, and one is not feeling well, another is entangled with the police, and so on. I know that interpersonal matters are like fire, and I want to ask what can be done? Because I know that sometimes if children harm, the parents pay the price. The most painful thing is that I asked for forgiveness and what not? And there is no one to talk to. How can I know when I have made an effort or not? I write with tears because I owe money, I got entangled in big things because I was looking for broken wells, and I want to know if I made an effort or not? I would be very grateful if the question is passed to the rabbi personally, it is urgent, I have no peace, although I have no money to pay, I beg, I would like to talk to him, it is a complicated case, thank you very much. Yael
Answer
Hello,
It is recommended that you personally approach Rabbi Frid, shlita.
You can come every evening between 10-12 at his home on 28 Daniel St., Bnei Brak.
[Until then, know that despite the severity of 'between man and his fellow', if you were in the right, you have no punishment.
In the Torah, which is the Torah of truth, a righteous person is not punished, only a wicked one is punished].
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