Deception of a Small Child
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Question
The Gemara says, 'Beware of a woman, for her tears are frequent, and her deception is near.' What is the ruling regarding a small child? Sometimes a small child is lifted, and he doesn't like it and cries. Is there deception in this, as a small child's tears are also frequent? Does this start only from a certain age?
Answer
Hello,
The prohibition against causing distress to a person applies not only to those who cry but to any person.
Regarding the warning not to distress a woman, it means one should be particularly careful because her distress is greater, as it is common to see her crying from distress.
Therefore, if it is known that a child is distressed when lifted and the like, it is forbidden to do so unless it is for the child's benefit, as is common when a child resists care, but it is done for his own good.