Wedding Date Set
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Question
If I have set a wedding date, can we live together? Sleep together?
Answer
Hello and congratulations
As long as there have been no Kiddushin and Chuppah, you are not married at all.
All the laws apply to you as they do to a single man and woman who are strangers.
Including the prohibition of Yichud and the prohibition of physical contact.
Source
Minor Tractates, Tractate Kallah, Chapter 1, Halacha 1
Kallah without a blessing
[The marriage blessings recited under the Chuppah]
is forbidden to her husband like a Niddah, just as a Niddah who has not immersed is forbidden to her husband, so too a Kallah without a blessing is forbidden to her husband.