Marital Harmony for a Parents' Meeting
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Question
I am going through a very difficult time with my husband in our marriage. His father is a rabbi, and his mother gives lessons. I really want to involve them, perhaps to talk to their son or to compel him to go to counseling, as he is not willing for us both to go to counseling. In the past, I shared with them, but I feel he just manages to turn them around. Is it permissible for me to involve them for the sake of benefit, even if I share some of the difficulties we face? Or should I just open a divorce case, as I have no strength left to fight for peace alone.
Answer
Hello,
Without a doubt, if the situation reaches the point of divorce plans, it is clear that everything must be done to prevent it.
If there is a chance that talking to the parents will help, certainly you should approach them.
[The rule not to involve parents is generally correct to avoid creating problems from things that should not be, but not when the problems exist and are troubling, and there is a chance for a solution].