Contraception - Pressing Time
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Question
Hello, I am a newlywed, thank God, and I wanted to ask if it is halachically permissible to use contraceptives in the first year of marriage. I know myself that my wife and I are not ready for a child at this stage of life, I am in academic studies from 8 to 11 every day, we have no help from parents at all, and I really think that having a child now could lead to a real divorce, and I am not exaggerating. I wanted to know what the halachic stance is on this matter. Thank you.
Answer
Hello
The answer depends on many personal details and the exact situation, so this is not a general directive.
You should approach a rabbi who knows you, together with your wife, and explain the situation and the need for contraception, so the rabbi can provide a personal answer according to your needs.
Note that even after permission to prevent pregnancy for a period, it is necessary to check which methods are permitted, as there are forbidden methods and those permitted in cases of need.
Source
Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer, Siman 23