Matchmaking - Efforts
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Question
Hello, I am a girl involved in matchmaking. There was a match I really wanted, but the boy's side refused due to an insignificant and incorrect reason. I sent them an email under a pseudonym, stating that I am involved in matchmaking and explained that it was not true, etc. They were convinced and told the matchmaker they wanted a meeting. After the act, I feel that this is a lack of faith and beyond the duty of effort, because if I hadn't sent it, it wouldn't have progressed. On the other hand, no matchmaker will strive and convince as I did for myself, and the fact is that it helped. What should I really do, and should I really not do this anymore? Thank you.
Answer
Hello and blessings
Since you are sure that the reason was incorrect, and there is no one else to do this persuasion, there is no problem in convincing them to meet again in this way.