Shidduchim/kibbud av

is a child obligated to listen and act upon a request of their father if it is being forced onto them? a father is nervous about their child that is still single and forces them to go to shadchanim at times that do not work with the girl. the girl is content with her situation and belives that she did her hishdatlus and can not deal with the pressure. the father begins to threaten the child if they do not obey.

Shalom!

Thank you for your question.

Although one doesn't always have to listen to one's parents with regard to shidduchim, Nevertheless it's very important to show respect to one's parents and to be open with them and explain the situation to them. So, in your case, I would advise you to explain to your father how you feel, and that pressure does not work well with you, and that you are willing to work with him to find a way that will work for both of you since ultimately you father has your good in mind.