Honoring Parents + Modesty
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Question
Hello, I find it difficult to wear stockings, and I started wearing short socks. Recently, this issue came up at home, and about two weeks ago, my father commented on it in a very offensive manner. I was hurt and left the house. It was hard for me to return home, but I did, and I haven't spoken to him for two weeks. I want to ask two questions: 1. About the socks 2. About honoring parents Thank you very much!!
Answer
Hello
It is forbidden to go outside the house with short socks. The legs should be covered.
Inside the house, there is no obligation to wear socks, but it is a merit in modesty.
There is no obligation to wear 'stockings', any other type of socks can be worn. [As long as their color is not problematic in itself].
There is an obligation to honor the father even when he is wrong. And even when he comments inappropriately. Certainly, there is no place to distress him and not speak to him for a long time.
This does not mean that a parent is allowed to intentionally, God forbid, harass or distress the child, but certainly, parents are obligated to educate and guide the children towards the commandments. Including modesty.