Suffering in Marriage
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Question
In the Name of God Hello, Honorable Rabbi, I am in a very complex situation, in an internal struggle. Rationally, I want to divorce because enough is enough - why endure all this pain. On the other hand, my soul is broken, I need to find a new place for myself, rebuild myself. What is the advice to survive this situation and remain sane? I wish I had the level of faith where my heart would be completely at peace.
Answer
Hello and blessings
Clearly, there is no reason to continue living in such pain.
On the other hand, divorce is not a solution to the pain, it is a different kind of difficulty and pain.
Sometimes the difficulties in marriage are so great and unsolvable that it is right to replace one difficulty with another.
But it is much more correct to try to solve the first problem. It is worth doing everything for this.
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