Caution in Matchmaking

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Hello and blessings. I am a girl involved in matchmaking and would like to ask if I should be concerned about the displeasure of a young man I stopped seeing after three meetings (didn't match in style/outlook) and who I believe was very upset (it should be noted that we, of course, sent an apology message, etc.)? Also, in general, we are currently receiving many negative responses without an apparent reason, should I really be concerned about someone's displeasure or just continue to pray, etc.? Thank you very much in advance!

Answer

Hello 

It is known from the greats of our generation that they always said there is no concern for displeasure if one acted according to the law. 

Therefore, if you ended the matchmaking respectfully and without insult, and additionally conveyed your apology for the distress caused, there is no concern for displeasure. 

I wish that, with God's help, the right match will come soon and with joy.

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