Connecting With Jewish Community
Question
Hi Rabbi, I was born from a jewish mother, my family stopped being observant but because my great grandma was jewish therefore my grandma is and my mom is so I am, my fathers family is jewish but my dad never practiced, I want to join a community but it is hard for them to take me because I have never practiced, I feel a fire in my heart that invites me to observ ant
Answer
Shalom!
Thank you for your question!
It is great to hear that you want to start on a patch of practicing authentic Judaism. Doing so will give you much meaning and happiness. It sounds like you are kind of on your own without the participation of your parents. Here are some ways you can start (continue!) you path in Judaism.
1. Hebrew lessons are good or just basic Hebrew reading to get you reading the prayers in Hebrew is also sufficient right now. Until you are able to read Hebrew, you can pray in English, or even better, with a transliteration of the Hebrew words.
2. Connect with your local orthodox synagogue. Do not be shy to reach out to the rabbi. Find out what kind of Torah classes are available in your synagogue or community.
3. Find like-minded friends. Perhaps there are youth groups for girls like yourself. Having friends will help you in your journey. It is great to be able to hang out with such friends on Shabbat afternoon
4. Make sure you have some basic holy books around you. A siddur (prayer book) and Chumash (The Book of Torah) are a must. Be sure to get editions with good English print and commentary.
5. Look into further study on your own. Which topics interest you most? Stories of the Torah? Ethics? Jewish law? Holidays? Women’ guides? There are tons of great books you can order online to increase your knowledge. See artscroll.com to name but one.
6. Shabbat is an especially important time to build up your connect and appreciation for Torah Judaism. Be sure you speak to your rabbi and others in the community about having you join families for Shabbat meals.