Advice on Relationship Issues

Hello, dear Rabbi. Recently, I've been having many doubts and questions with myself. It's hard for me with the issue of relationships. I feel like I can't find myself in it, as if it's not something meant for me. I don't have any romantic connections or interests, and I never have, even though I'm in a society where people meet guys or go out to various places, but it's not working for me. Until now, I've had faith that it will come in its own time and that the Creator will arrange the best for me, but recently it's been unsettling me. I feel that either I learn from this and strengthen myself, or I fall and enter a bad place that will harm me (that I will do foolish things out of this despair). It's been hard for me with this situation, and recently I'm afraid of staying like this. I would appreciate it, dear Rabbi, if you could give me advice or a lesson on this. Thank you very much, dear Rabbi, best wishes.

Hello!

Of course, it's impossible to give a lesson in this format, so I'll write briefly.

Every Jew is commanded to believe in God, who governs the world, does everything, and brings to each person what is decreed for them.

A person is obligated to 'make an effort', meaning to take actions to achieve health, livelihood, relationships, and more, but the knowledge of every Jew is that 'I take the actions, and God will take care of everything'.

I suggest you find a regular lesson on faith in God; besides the great and fundamental commandment you will fulfill when you learn to believe in God, it will give you a lot of peace and tranquility.

Good luck!