Non-Jewish Girlfriend

Question

My girlfriend is from Thailand. I feel like I am deeply angering god by having this relationship. I have had dreams that scare me and I walk through life feeling uneasy about the future, like I am walking on a tightrope that can snap at any moment. I have had scary dreams and I feel like my soul is leaving me. What should I do?

Answer

Shalom!

Thank you for writing.

Indeed, interdating and intermarriage is one of the worst things a Jew can do. 

The Torah requires that we only seek Jewish marriage partners.

You should break off the relationship with your girlfriend in a quick and gentle manner.

May you find your true soulmate and have a happy married life based on Torah values. 

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