Can a Born Jewish Woman Marry a Non-Jew for Her Safety?

Hello! Can a born Jewish woman marry a non-Jew due to family circumstances: her family has distanced themselves from Jewish roots, but this Jewish woman secretly returned to tradition and studies the Torah, etc., all for her safety - in secret. If she marries as she should - to a Jew, just imagine how her family, who have distanced themselves from traditions and are absorbed in anti-Semitic assimilation, will react to this... Considering her life in fear and secrecy until now. Can she marry a non-Jew for her safety? I will be completely alone if I do what is right according to our tradition..

Shalom!

Thank you for your question.

Marriages between Jews and non-Jews are categorically prohibited under any circumstances. Such a marriage falls into the category of the most serious violations, which in some cases are equated with the gravest sins, regarding which it is said that "a person should give their life rather than violate them." Of course, this does not mean literally putting oneself in danger, but it underscores how serious the prohibition is against entering into close relationships with a non-Jew.

Although I do not know all the details of your situation, you apparently need to seriously consider leaving your family and current environment. You should think about repatriating to Israel or moving to another large Jewish community in the diaspora, where you will be safe and can openly lead a Jewish lifestyle.

In this, you will be similar to our forefather Abraham, who left his home and family to live according to the will of the Creator.

May the Almighty bless you in all your endeavors!

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