Memorial on Hanukkah
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Question
Hello, Does the eve of the Hanukkah holiday cancel the annual memorial for a parent? Is it permissible to hold a meal on the eve of the holiday?
Answer
Hello,
Even during Hanukkah itself, it is possible to hold a memorial with a meal. However, eulogies are not given, and crying is not encouraged; instead, words of Torah and strengthening are spoken for the elevation of the deceased's soul.
Regarding visiting the grave, there are differing opinions in Halacha. In any case, it is forbidden to cry and eulogize during Hanukkah, so it is advisable to visit before Hanukkah.
Source
Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim, Siman 670, Seif 1. Ben Ish Chai, First Year, Parashat Vayeshev.