Vow to Give Sandak in Exchange for a Blessing
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Question
We waited 3 years for a child and went to a rabbi who blessed us on the condition that if we have a child by Hanukkah, he would be the sandak. In reality, I became pregnant only in Shevat. Is this a vow, and if so, how can it be annulled?
Answer
Since the condition was not fulfilled, there is no issue of not keeping a promise or vow. However, if you feel that the blessing helped, even though the salvation came later, it is meaningful to honor him with the sandak role. May it be the will of Hashem that you raise your son in Torah, under the chuppah, and in good deeds, and may he bring you much joy.
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